Dear Unknown Friends:
We continue
to serialize the magnificent 1949 lecture Poetry and Keenness, by
Eli Siegel. This principle, stated by him, is its basis — and the basis
of Aesthetic Realism: "All beauty is a making one of opposites, and
the making one of opposites is what we are going after in ourselves."
There is no statement about beauty and the human self keener than that:
in it Mr. Siegel has cut through, as no person before him was able
to, to what beauty truly is and what we, with all our tumult and bewilderment,
are. And there is no statement kinder: it is fair to every nuance of art
and our own lives.
Beauty,
Mr. Siegel showed — whether in a Brahms symphony, a rose, or the expression
on a person’s face — is always a oneness of the keen and the richly gentle,
of sharpness and subtlety. I am going to comment on a subject about which
it is terrifically necessary for people to meet true keenness, but about
which they have been meeting year after year, from media and the psychiatric
spokespersons, a hideous non-keenness, messiness of thought, gobbledygook,
masquerading as acuity. The subject is: How can I like this self which
is mine? or, to use that much used word, How can I have self-esteem?
I look at an article that appeared in the New York Times on May
5, because it represents the cruel mess the media has palmed off on people
while boycotting the kind, thirsted-for clarity of Aesthetic Realism.
Under the
headline "Self-Image Is Suffering from Lack of Esteem," Kirk Johnson writes
about the self-esteem vogue of the last two decades: the idea that "high
self-esteem would foster success"; that in order for people to do better
they should have their self-esteem "bolstered," get "self-esteem training."
This idea is, he says, now being questioned. Well, it was objected to from
the beginning in the present periodical, because Aesthetic Realism shows
it is simply not so. Meanwhile, something false can be questioned and the
nature of the questioning be false too — so I offer the following from
the Times article as containing illogic and murk disguised as the
latest keenness:
By 1986, when California created
a commission to bolster self-image as a statewide goal, the concept had
become a pop-culture phenomenon. Celebrated in the media, in politics and
in schools, self-esteem had become an end in itself....But now self-esteem
is having image problems of its own....Research is indicating that self-esteem
is not in and of itself a strong predictor of success....Studies of gang
members and criminals found their self-esteem — reinforced by peers or
lawlessness — to be as high as that of any over-achiever.
How Can We Like Ourselves?
The thing amiss with the Esteem-Yourself
movement is not the seeing self-esteem as "an end in itself." To think
well of ourselves is an ineluctable goal, purpose, aim of every person.
It is a beautiful fact that we are critics of ourselves, and we want to
think well of that self we walk around with, use to look at things with,
are alone with in the privacy of our minds. Along with the question of
how can I afford food, clothing, shelter, there is no fiercer, more unquenchable
question in people than How can I like myself — and why don’t I?
The Thing Evaded
What the Times evades and the
psychologists evade is the plain fact that the so-called experts don’t
know the answer to that question. They don’t know what self-esteem is —
and on what basis one can get it. Further, they have been flops at enabling
people to esteem themselves. What has been put forth as the "bolstering"
of self-esteem has been essentially flattery — inaccurate, and deeply mean
and dangerous.
Aesthetic
Realism shows there is only one basis on which we can ever esteem ourselves.
That basis is: how just are we to the outside world — to that which, in
Eli Siegel’s kind words, "begins where our finger tips end." This is the
inescapable criterion for judgment within the self of everyone; and the
extensive efforts these years to "boost" people’s "self-image" have been,
really, an attempt to circumvent that criterion. They have consisted essentially
of telling people how good and special they are. And they have flopped
because "the ethical unconscious," Mr. Siegel writes, "cannot be bribed"
(Self and World, p. 339). Not knowing this fundamental and great
fact, not wanting to learn from Aesthetic Realism, and having failed at
enabling people to do well in their lives through "self-esteem training,"
the various mental health practitioners are now saying that liking yourself
isn’t important anyway!
The following
statement presents as keen science and sharp reportage something that is
actually murk and senselessness: "Studies of gang members and criminals
found their self-esteem...to be as high as that of any over-achiever."
It is impossible for a gang member or criminal to esteem himself, because
he cannot feel he has met the world with accuracy and fairness. Conceit
or belligerent cockiness is not the same as self-esteem. And an "over-achiever"
(and I’m not sure there is such a thing) may not esteem himself either.
The sentence shows that the persons doing those "studies" are crucially
muddled: they don’t know the difference between something ugly and very
common — conceit — and that longed-for feeling, As I look at myself I am
sincerely proud.
What every
human being needs and aches to know is what Eli Siegel explained: The thing
that stops us from liking ourselves is contempt — the "disposition
in every person to think he will be for himself by making less of the outside
world." Contempt, Mr. Siegel showed so greatly, is the beginning of every
injustice ever committed. It is the feeling that what goes on within us
is more real and valuable than what goes on within other people; that people
and things exist essentially to make us important and comfortable, not
to be comprehended by us; it is the feeling we are more if we can look
down on others. Contempt is the spurious "self-esteem" that makes us unable
to esteem ourselves. "It is," Mr. Siegel writes, "that which distinguishes
a self secretly and that which makes that self ashamed and weaker" (Self
and World, p. 362).
The following
New
York Times sentence is supposed to represent the keen exactitude of
science; but it happens to have the unclarity of a swamp: "Research is
indicating that self-esteem is not in and of itself a strong predictor
of success." The huge false assumption here is the notion that the researchers
know not only what self-esteem is but what success is, and therefore are
equipped to determine the relation between them. They don’t. That word,
success,
is being used with sloppiness and superficiality — because we can succeed
at a job or at getting degrees (the kind of "success" the sentence likely
refers to), while failing in what matters most to our lives.
In his great
Definitions,
and Comment: Being a Description of the World, Eli Siegel defines success
as "the coming to be of one’s purpose," and writes, "If we are successful
in small purposes, and our largest purpose is not reached, then we have
not had the success of self" (TRO 319). The relation between self-esteem
and success is this: If we are going after the largest success of self,
the purpose we were born for — honest like of the world
— we will
like ourselves. If we pursue any goal not as a means to see the world justly
but as a substitute for that — even if we glowingly succeed, we despise
ourselves.
A Beautiful Dissatisfaction
Included in the Times article
is "The Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale," an "analytic tool" for measuring
self-esteem, used since the 1960s. It is based on 10 statements, and the
respondent is asked whether he agrees or disagrees with each one. There
is much to say about these statements, but I comment on the particular
unintelligence of two.
According
to the gauge, an individual who esteems himself would agree with #1, "On
the whole, I am satisfied with myself," and disagree with #8, "I wish I
could have more respect for myself." But it happens that the greatest people,
the people with the most true pride, have not been satisfied with
themselves, and have always hoped to respect themselves more. There are
the noble, tremendously practical and lovable statements of Robert Browning,
"Ah, but a man’s reach should exceed his grasp,/Or what’s a heaven for?"
and "What I aspired to be,/And was not, comforts me." Browning knew more
than the press and therapists. He knew that there is a beautiful dissatisfaction
with oneself that can have one truly like oneself — in fact, is necessary
if one is to like oneself. The more just we want to be, the less satisfied
with ourselves we are—yet the more we authentically esteem ourselves. This
ridiculous scale equates an obnoxious smugness with self-esteem.
What Is the Self?; or, Many and One
I comment swiftly on one more passage
in this article: "In psychology, the idea has gained ground that there
is no coherent self at all as people generally think of it, but rather
a series of selves, like mirrors that reflect aspects of an individual’s
connection to the world."
This idea
may "gain ground," but it is not true. There are many facets of our self,
but it is still the self as a whole — containing all of them — which wakes
up in the morning. In Self and World, Mr. Siegel writes, "A self
can be described as the particular way, seen as a whole, which an organism
has of meeting the world and feeling its own existence" (p. 319). I think
that description is beautiful.
The self,
Aesthetic Realism explains, being aesthetic, is a oneness of one and many,
and wants that oneness to be greater and greater. In a lecture of 1973,
as he spoke of Marcel Proust, Mr. Siegel said, "In meeting people, and
reading books, our self is multiplied. The purpose of all experience is
to make the self many, and in making the self many, to make its oneness
more effective." And that description, of Proust and us, is also a description
of how we can esteem ourselves: by meeting the manyness of the world so
justly and gladly that we become larger, more organized, unified — more
ourselves.
I think
this new idea about "no coherent self" comes from the following logic on
the part of psychologists: We don’t know what the self is; therefore
the self doesn’t exist—or at least we can say it doesn’t.
Persons
of the press, and the mental "experts" they tout but secretly laugh at,
have resented Eli Siegel’s greatness of thought and complete honesty. They
have been angry at needing to learn so much from him. Nevertheless, in
his Aesthetic Realism is the means, exact, kind, and immortal, for people
to like themselves truly at last.
— Ellen Reiss, Class
Chairman of Aesthetic Realism
Keenness and Yeats
By Eli Siegel
Keenness is a fundamental thing in
the world, and some aspects of it can be seen even in the poems of Yeats.
"The Lake Isle of Innisfree" is all bloom and curves and twilight, and
doesn’t have a Celtic angle, nearly. It represents the peachiness of poetry,
the mist quality; yet Yeats in his fashion is also keen. [The poem begins,
"I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree."]
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...And I shall have some peace there,
for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning
to where the cricket sings;
There midnight’s all a glimmer,
and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet’s
wings.... |
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When we have
a phrase like "and noon a purple glow"—there doesn’t seem to be a point
there. —Then: "I will arise and go now, for always night and day/I hear
lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore." "Lake water lapping"—what’s
that got to do with a pincushion; what’s that got to do with brambles;
what kind of universe is this?
That is
Yeats when he is not keen. But then, though the technique of the poem may
avoid the angle, the sharp effect — still, what the poem, from one point
of view, is about, is keen.
There is
another well-known poem of Yeats: "Never Give All the Heart." Now, a keen
person is often suspicious; and one thing in keenness is to be suspicious
of what is worthy of suspicion. However, a keen person also sees beauty
and absence of suspicion where another might not. This is a poem seemingly
about suspicion. A good suspicion is keenness. A bad suspicion that works
very hard is bad keenness. This poem was used by many young men years ago
in moments of moodiness:
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Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking
of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything that’s lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can
say,
Have given their hearts up to the
play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with
love?... |
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On the one
hand the poem says, "Look out, be sharp, be keen! Don’t trust those women!"
But on the other hand, the technique is a little like a Celtic twilight
bagpipe. And that is important, because there is nothing more misty than
the universe. So this is keen counsel: it is always true. Women are never
to be trusted — unless they deserve to be trusted. Men are never to be
trusted—unless they deserve to be trusted. And that goes for panthers,
doves, and snakes. Nothing is to be trusted unless it is worthy to be trusted.
But then, if something is worthy to be trusted and we don’t trust it, what
have we been? We haven’t been keen; we have just been unwise.
Where there
is any going beyond the surface there is something like keenness. Sometimes,
however, it happens that what seems the surface is true and what seems
not the surface is untrue. Sometimes things should be taken at their face
value, because the face value happens to be the deepest thing about them.
Some people have been so "wise" that an obvious thing has been passed by.
We therefore
see that sometimes we have to cut through a specious depth to get to the
deep surface; sometimes we have to cut through a specious surface to get
to the true depth. The cutting through, the neat cutting through, the necessary
cutting through, is a part of keenness.
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